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<p>ConnieOgilby: Created page with &quot;The procedures of an ancient Chinese marriage are captured within the phrase &quot;Three (3) Letters and Six (6) Etiquettes&quot;.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The three Letters are the engagement letter, th...&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>The procedures of an ancient Chinese marriage are captured within the phrase &quot;Three (3) Letters and Six (6) Etiquettes&quot;.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The three Letters are the engagement letter, the delivery of gifts letter and also the taking of the bride letter.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In ancient times, if a man is excited about a woman, he will engage a middlemen (a middle-women actually) to explore the possibility and if appropriate to convey his intentions to the woman's family. Should the woman's family finds him acceptable, they're going to notify him and he might make the official proposal by delivering the formal letter of engagement on an auspicious date.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;At this stage the women's family can still say no to the proposal. When you would expect you will find still a whole lot of things to sort out and to negotiate over.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Should the proposal is accepted, the next step is to deliver wedding gifts to the woman's family. These wedding gifts which are normally expensive are accompanied by the 'Delivery of Gift' letter which is essentially a number of items and quantity much like a delivery order! By signing this letter and [https://www.sparkfun.com/users/1649737 Recommended Website] taking delivery of the gifts, it signifies the women's family acceptance of the marriage.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The itemized 'Delivery of Gift' letter is also a safeguard against pilferage by the delivery team!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The third letter is known as the 'Taking the Bride' Letter since it is the letter that the groom produces when he arrives at the bride's home on the wedding day. Upon acceptance of the letter, the bride is deemed to have joined the groom and be a member of the groom's family.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It is not surprising why the bride mothers weep uncontrollably on wedding days. It's like losing a daughter!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It refers to the six main procedures within an ancient Chinese marriage. It includes the official proposal, the checking of Ba Zi (compatibility using a system of Chinese Astrology), selection of auspicious date for the wedding, delivery of gifts, confirmation of wedding dates and then finally the wedding itself.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In the event the man has set his eyes on the girl, he sends an official proposal to the woman's family. Once the proposal is accepted, he will seek the services of an astrologer to find out should they are compatible. Research can even be done to guarantee that there's no blood relationship between them. At this stage the engagement can be called off whenever they are not compatible or maybe if their blood line are somewhat connected.</div>

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<p>ConnieOgilby: Created page with &quot;My name is Connie (43 years old) and my hobbies are Card collecting and Roller Derby.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Also visit my webpage: [https://www.sparkfun.com/users/1649737 visit the following...&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>My name is Connie (43 years old) and my hobbies are Card collecting and Roller Derby.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Also visit my webpage: [https://www.sparkfun.com/users/1649737 visit the following website page]</div>

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